Hi GuidoFox here! Wonderful that you will read this article ;)

The way we communicate verbally is the gateway towards the physical.

The physical is the gateway towards the sexual.

The sexual is the gateway towards falling in love together.

Even when your communication physical is brilliant, your words, your voice, your sentences are needed to accompany and stimulate the physical.

In my 8 years’ experience as a High-End Spiritual Dating Coach the most common aspect & missing link in clients’ success with women is the verbal aspect. The verbal is – next to the above mentioned process – important for NightGame, DayGame and your Dates.

A woman can be pregnant only from several men in their life: therefore, even with the contraception possibilities nowadays, this old conditioning mechanism is still active in her brains and she would test the men (verbally).

The whole (later mentioned) knowledge of Excellent Verbal Game is to bypass her tests, so she is able to know who you really are and where you stand (leveling). If the testing/teasing-phase is over, there is less/no reason anymore to stay in your Verbal Game: your physical actions will be much more important (showing/doing).

Showing intent without giving your power away

As a man, we have to find a balance between ‘showing intent’ – letting the woman know that you are interested in her (validation) – and ‘without giving your power away’ – not to become too sleezy and so too needy where the lower leveling is kicking in. Several tools are helpful to bypass the ‘test/tease-phase’ with holding this balance. For the women: we all do this to make the conversations also more interesting – and not boring – for you.

In my earlier article – How to hold her attention in the NightClub! (English) – you are able to find information about the effects of (temper the) statements, freedom of outcome and association as other tools for the conversations.

1) Push-Pulls (Pull-Pushes)

2) Qualifiers

3) Validation/Intent

4) Disqualifiers

5) Negs

In this article I will not going into specific examples (personalized), but in the 1-1 coaching sessions yes!

The main thing I want to share: you are using always these first 3 methods, but with highly-ego-inflated-kind of arrogant women you are able to go direct to 4/5 and then step back to 1,2,3, so calibration on blueprint-scanning here is important.

As last thing, validation/showing intent is the most undervaluable aspect of Verbal Game, because of the influence of non-needy overkill (toxic masculinity): you are able to give genuine compliments and reasons why you like her.

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I should recommend using statements later in the conversations for the story-telling’s, exploiting creatively one subject and subject-shiftings & more later linking to earlier subjects!

Greetz,

GuidoFox – Evolve your Life!

High-End Spiritual Dating Coach

www.GuidoFox.nl

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