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We all known the (simplistic) split between the alpha- and the beta-male whereas the alpha is spreading his seeds and the beta is carrying with the women for the children of the alpha(s). It’s a very sad story for the beta-male in the extreme form of nature as his only option is to spread his seeds in the older women – who didn’t make any chances of pregnancy anymore – for beta-bonding or no one if there is no (mutual) interest/nobody left.

There has to make two thresholds in this (brutal) system of natural thinking: (1) the group dynamics could be under pressure if too much beta-males are out of sexual chances/resources were a revolt against the unsharing alpha male(s) will result in a disintegration/replacement of the group. This disintegration/replacement isn’t favorable for the sitting power, therefore it would be wise as the alpha(s) are sharing more (less fertile) women (exclusively) with the beta-males.

The second thresholds: (2) some beta-males have the potential to grow towards alpha-males who invest in their genes (physics) or in behavior patterns (charisma, speaking skills, etc.). It would be also wise as the current alpha(s) invest in their future following-up mechanism (read: sharing women) what’s favorable for the survival rate of the (small) group future-wise.

These two thresholds are tempering the brutal system of earlier natural thinking, but we see still nowadays in civilization that the stronger and more successful men are much more popular under women than the silent beta-males.

The above mentioned paradigm is still active in the brains of women by their selecting/mating strategies whereas the alpha is more short-term related (he is always on the move/hunt) and the beta-male stimulates more long-term reliable comfort & carrying support.

So, women are using a dual mating strategy: the alpha for short-term mating in her ovulation-period and the beta for the side-support. I have to make the announcement that we are still here in natural thinking and not in matrix civilization thinking whereas the women has much more time to make a wise decision for balanced alpha/beta male choices instead of the quick passing by alpha-male.

The natural thinking system is all related to the first impression what’s mainly based on fast, spontaneous, automatic, good genes, superior man, physical appearance, charisma, speaking qualities, good genes, leadership, is he turn-me on-quickly – behavior patterns. If the alpha is able to have intimacy within a short time period with her, she is probably seeing him as an real alpha male – and could be falling in love with him upward of this (strong) frame.

The matrix civilization system is all related to a longer time-restrained period of impressions of him were the woman have more time to consider, think and balance the pros and cons of this person. It could be possible that this rational ‘thinking-process’ could block her inner natural feelings. Especially for the superior man (alpha), it isn’t a favorable situation because she will position him probably in an unreliable easy-to-leave-her box. The decisions in this system are based on slow, complex decisions, reliable, status, fits into her long term plans (rational), assertiveness, confidence, provide & protect, resourcefulness, stability, social proof, carefully, security, comfort and carrying.

In the matrix women are meeting men mostly through work, school, university, gym, bars, clubs and online dating (mostly with a long-time-restrained period of knowing each other via texting) were women are acting from the above mentioned matrix civilization system of thinking. If you step in the world of Social DayLove/DayGame, she will step in the natural thinking system (because of the short-time-restrained period of knowing each other).

This short period of selecting/mating has also an influence on her testing-behavior: they will be harder & tougher. The missed-out information of the longer time-restrained-period of civilization (your male competition) has to be compensated. Therefore, the alpha has to give her as much information (coachable excellent skillsets) as possible (i.e. location where he lives) in the first hours to make the chance of intimacy on the first date or following-up dates the highest (up to relationships).